I recently read a very interesting article over on the site
of the lovely Indie Chicks.
This is something I had to tackle recently. I've been dating,
and seeing that I'm not in a relationship, I didn't see any qualms about seeing
two or three guys at once. Dating multiple people is new to me, so I approached it in the way I felt
would hurt everyone the least.
Honestly.
Guy B asked why I couldn't meet him until much later. I told
him Guy A had already asked for coffee date planned for that afternoon. And he
shrugged it off! Although, what I thought was going to be a late afternoon
coffee, turned into late night coffee and I had to take a rain check. I told
him I was headed to dinner with Guy B. And yeah, he admitted he was
disappointed, but we're still talking and going to the movies when he arrives
back in town.
Honesty has paid off for me. And I have gotten to know some really great guys.
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